A Road Without Obstacles is not Worth Traveling

Yesterday I was handed the best letter I have ever received.

I was at St. Monica’s Home for Girls for the first time. Earlier in the day I had met Sarah, a 17-year-old junior in high school who has been living at St. Monica’s since fourth grade. Extremely intelligent, with a vocabulary and life philosophy well beyond her years, Sarah discussed the Kenyan school system, as well as her desire to go to university and become a lawyer.

Sarah also revealed that she loves to write. I told her that I am a writer by profession—and that just like her, I used to write all throughout my childhood and school years. We chatted for a few minutes about writing.

A few hours later, as everyone was grouped together watching the movie Happy Feet, I felt something being pressed into my hand. It was a well-folded note, passed from Sarah on to me. I opened it and read:

You have inspired me by hearing that you also love writing just as I do. I hope to learn more from you and also talk a couple of times before you leave. Thank you for offering to come and spend your time with us. God bless you and I love you and appreciate your coming.”

I felt surprised, but also touched and honored, that in those few minutes I had somehow inspired Sarah in some small way. I asked her if she would like to write for me, inviting her to contribute to my stories about St. Monica’s. She seemed eager to do so—to have her words read by others, her voice heard. We agreed that she would do some writing about her life, and share with me the next day.

I was blown away by the three pages of pure, distilled life that Sarah handed me when I returned the following day. And with that, I end my words and give you Sarah’s. And I tell you—you will not believe the writer of them is only 17 years old.

 St. Monica’s has been an epic journey for me since I got a chance to be there. It was not a tragic mistake in any way. It was just God’s plan so that I could fulfill the dream He had in mind when I was born.

At first I used to view this orphanage life as a punishment from God. I always felt isolated whenever I went to school where only one or two are orphans. Life to me was a real tragedy; I could see life with no useful meaning or value. I always saw myself as a discouragement to those who wished to be my heroes. Communicating to people was also a hell gate to knowing people, according to me.

But the MFFO volunteers add to us joy and happiness, and lay a bright ray of hope for us each time we get a chance to see them. They give us the motive of acting and leaping fearlessly, despite all the struggles and tangles of life.

We have as well gone through a few challenges, leaving us to learn that disappointments will come and will always be there in life, since a road without obstacles is not worth traveling. The road to the prize is much more precious than the prize itself.

I have personally learnt how to view life differently, especially in an optimistic way, and seeing every chance as an opportunity to welcome changes in my life. This is because the biggest room in the world, is the room to keep changing.

Some of us view life as something unfair to live. To me life is a cash register; in that every account, every thought and every deed—like every sale—is registered and recorded. We are here to add what we can to life, not to get what we can from it.

I’m always very glad for anyone who lends a helping hand to people like orphans. It may seem to be a burden to many, but a wonderful thing to some. We should always help the less advantaged in this life because their lives hold more to them than what you might think.

St. Monica’s has really moved my life up to where I am right now. I can now stand before millions of people and shout to the whole world that despite all that I faced when I was young, I can as well make a big difference to many people who may feel as outcasts in this life. I came to learn that we need not be satisfied with what we have since we were born to change our lives to be stars. We were all born to be heroes, since we are all intelligent, blessed, special and unique.

Those who bring laughter to others cannot keep it from themselves. Let us all help others laugh at troubles, because laughter is the sun that drives winter from the human face.

If you would like to make a difference and help Sarah, and the other St. Monica girls, to realize their dreams, please join the MFFO 12 for 12 in 2012 program! If you can spare just $12 a month—the price of one movie ticket—you can support a girl’s education!

 

6 Responses to “A Road Without Obstacles is not Worth Traveling”

  1. Leslie Mester May 2, 2012 at 9:12 am #

    What beautiful, deep, rich writing. She is a wonderful writer and should continue to bless the world with her thoughts and feelings…

  2. Ira Serkes May 2, 2012 at 10:36 am #

    Oh wow – tears in my eyes too.

    It’s aways the journey.

    Always

    Ira

  3. Jeff Turner May 2, 2012 at 9:22 pm #

    Shelley, thank you for exposing this story. I was moved to tears. Having met Sarah face to face, I can attest to the how wonderful this young lady is. This story is why MFFO exists.

  4. Audrey May 14, 2012 at 7:26 am #

    I just love Sarah. She is beautiful inside and out. I have been moved by letters from her and I am so happy you could inspire her to write even more. Wow, to hear it from deep inside her own heart. It makes everything we do worth it.

  5. Gisela John May 14, 2012 at 11:51 am #

    What a beautiful young lady St. Monica’s has made of Sarah. She has learned the deeper meaning of life and will be a star til the end. Sarah reach for eternity!!!!!!

  6. Suzanne May 17, 2012 at 7:00 am #

    Such a beautiful young lady – inside and out. She is definitely talented. This story also brought tears to my eyes – thank you Shelley. God Bless.

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